On your wedding day, you are completely in love and know that your love will last a lifetime. The truth of the matter is that 50% of first-time marriages fail and the couple divorce. There are so many different reasons that a marriage can fail, but there are also ways to avoid this outcome if you both truly want to stay together.
Getting married is just the beginning of a lifetime together that you both desire, however, once the honeymoon is over and you settle in your daily routine things may not look at rosy. You must learn to share your life with another person which includes all the pet peeves that come along with every human. Living together in the same environment will be a completely new experience and there will be disagreements. How you both handle these disagreements will show the longevity of your marriage.
From small disagreements that can fester over time to financial problems to affairs can occur in any marriage. In order to work through all the ups and downs of your life, you must be able to communicate. Too many times, couples do not even realize that there is a problem with their marriage until it is too late and the divorce is filed.
Instead of heading down the path of divorce which is at the top of the list of stressful events in a person’s life, marriage counseling is one solution. No matter how long you have been married if you are wondering if you made the right decision or there are other factors that are making you wish to resolve your marriage, a marriage counselor may be able to help save your union.
Our marriage therapists have years of experience working with couples that wish to keep their marriage together and rekindle the love they had when they said: “I do”. Of course, not all marriages are salvageable, however, if both partners want the marriage to work, then the chances are much better.
If you are having doubts or cannot handle something your partner has done such as had an affair, then you should contact one of our marriage counselors today. The faster you start on repairing the anger, hurt, and in some cases embarrassment, the sooner you can heal while healing your marriage at the same time.
Our marriage counseling program works with both of you to determine what direction you both want the marriage to go if you are growing apart and the reasons why, and work to rekindle that desire and love you had in the beginning. If you love your partner, then you deserve to have a happy and long lasting marriage as long your partner feels the same way, you can achieve this goal. Everyone needs help from time to time to resolve issues or even learn how to communicate to one another as we grow and change in any situation. Marriage can be blissful, even with the ups and downs. Let one of our marriage counselors help you today to find the right path to grow together and make your marriage strong again.